Get her attention
If you don’t have her attention before you walk up to her to talk, you’re going to have to rely on a wickedly good first impression to grab her interest.
And I hate to break it to you, even the best looking guys make cruddy first impressions.
Here’s a little trick I learned that does wonders for making your initial conversation powerfully compelling:
Make a big entrance
I don’t mean walk into a party or a bar and yell, “BOO-ya!” at the top of your lungs.
But you want to walk in with a smile, confident body language, and as many people as you can.
My friend Will used to walk into everywhere he went and point his finger at nowhere in particular, nodding and smiling. Like he’d just been spotted by a friend.
And there was no one there he knew. It was his own personal way of making himself feel wanted and welcome everywhere he went.
Delusional?
Nope. Will got women EVERYWHERE he went.
If that’s delusional, I’ll be a complete lunatic…
Know what you want
Too many guys don’t know what they want.
They don’t know where they are heading.
Worse: some guys let women decide for them, whether it is in a relationship, in an interaction, or on a date.
But here is the thing:
Women are not attracted to men like this.
Women are attracted to men who can lead.
They are attracted to men who can be in charge.
Not by wimps who can’t do anything else but follow.
But there’s more…
Women don’t know what they want.
That’s why they need a direction.
They need a reference.
They need a powerful man to take command.
They need a powerful man who knows what he wants.
And when a woman stumbles upon this kind of man, she’s impressed.
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